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mandy_goodman
insider
12 years, 11 months ago
Boyfriends psycho ex girlfriend

Ok so my boyfriend's ex girlfriend still has pictures of the two of them together on myspace, and still has all of his lovey dovey comments as well. She has pictures of him on facebook too which she told me she deleted while we were kind of friends. I guess not because they are still there. Well I politely asked her to please take them down. She also has her status and information on myspace set as she is married to my boyfriend. There are old blogs and posts on websites saying this too. I found like 4 sites with it, I showed her the link and asked her to change it via instant message. She flipped out on me calling me a psycho and childish. She even got other people involved because I threatened her if she didn't take them down I'd make her. I asked nicely once then she disrespected me so I am not nice anymore. They have been broken up for 3 years now. Me and my boyfriend have a baby girl and plan on getting married but it bugs the $%*# out of me that she has stuff up saying that she is married to MY boyfriend and pictures of them making out (very trashy btw) since she was 15/16 at the time of the pictures. She even had to set up her timeline on facebook to include their dating date, but never added dates of her other boyfriend since then. She doesn't have any other ex boyfriend's photos just of my boyfriend. She used to stalk us when we first started dating too. Now am I wrong to think these actions other than the stalking are creepy and psycho? I say other than because we all know stalking is creepy and psycho ^^. AM I wrong to be upset about this? Am I the one being psycho and childish. I mean how hard is it to delete them. Delete your myspace no one uses it anyways. Then she called my boyfriend a stalker because I used his account on facebook to contact her and ask her to take the pictures down. She didn't give him any trouble about, she said she would but I checked again and they are still there after a month ago when he/ aka me asked her to.

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jenn8779
allstar
12 years, 11 months ago
Re: Boyfriends psycho ex girlfriend

Mandy, Yes, she is definitely wrong to still have all of that posted and also to be saying she is married to your boyfriend. However, since he is with you now, its really a big waste of your time and energy to even be bothered with her psycho-ness. Obviously, he loves YOU and not her or he'd still be with her, right? She is going to leave them up because she knows it bothers you. And you can't control her, only yourself. By allowing her to get to you, she is, in effect, "winning". If you ignore her, and so does your boyfriend, then you've ruined her fun and she'll stop. After all, how much fun is it really if you don't get any attention for it? I'm going to assume that most of the people you both know, mutually, know you and your boyfriend are together and have a child together and so propbably feel sorry for her or are disgusted by her antics and ignore her. Don't let her dictate how you feel any longer. Love your boyfriend and you baby girl and know you have what she doesn't. Karma will eventually take care of everything and do it better than anything you could say or do. Good luck and best wishes with your precious baby! :-)


mandy_goodman
insider
12 years, 11 months ago
Re: Re: Boyfriends psycho ex girlfriend
jenn8779 posted:

Mandy, Yes, she is definitely wrong to still have all of that posted and also to be saying she is married to your boyfriend. However, since he is with you now, its really a big waste of your time and energy to even be bothered with her psycho-ness. Obviously, he loves YOU and not her or he'd still be with her, right? She is going to leave them up because she knows it bothers you. And you can't control her, only yourself. By allowing her to get to you, she is, in effect, "winning". If you ignore her, and so does your boyfriend, then you've ruined her fun and she'll stop. After all, how much fun is it really if you don't get any attention for it? I'm going to assume that most of the people you both know, mutually, know you and your boyfriend are together and have a child together and so propbably feel sorry for her or are disgusted by her antics and ignore her. Don't let her dictate how you feel any longer. Love your boyfriend and you baby girl and know you have what she doesn't. Karma will eventually take care of everything and do it better than anything you could say or do. Good luck and best wishes with your precious baby! :-)

Thank you at least you understand and yes I think you are right, unfortunately its hard for me to ignore her because I have major depression disorder and obsess about everything that I can't control.I have never felt such anger towards one person. I am very kind until you mess with my boyfriend or my child. but thank you we love our child and each other and that is all that should matter


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