Try Dove Intensive Repair conditioner - my hair is heat styled and over processed - this keeps it in check. Also for a good shine and moisture boost try Aussie 3 minute miracle

Ojon Damage Reverse Restorative Hair Treatment Plus mask. 

I have tried Aussie 3 minute Miracle as well, I find it really good and it smells great!

Also, anytime you have a few hours to spare or even more night before you go to bed try Coconut oil in the ends of your hair! It is really really good for dry brittle hair! It comes like a hard white substance but softens a little in the warmth of your hands. Don't apply to the roots though, it will cause them to get greasy!

Good luck!

I have 2 products to recommend.  The first is the Wen Re-Moist Hydrating Mask.  It is the ultimate moisturizing treatment for dry, damaged, or stressed hair.  Formulated for all hair types and exceptional on dry, dehydrated, or color-treated hair.  This intensive hydrating treatment helps moisturize dry, stressed hair--restoring body and shine.

My second recommendation is the Macadamia Natural Oil Deep Repair Masque.  A combination of macadamia oil and argan oil along with tea tree oil, chamomile oil, aloe, and algae extracts rejuvenate and rebuild hair.

Both of these are natural choices and both are proven to improve dry and damaged hair.  I hope this helps!

Thanks to all who suggested intense repair masks for split end remediation; I will have to give some of these a try. I was curious about whether anyone has tried the new product lines from Nexxus or TRESemme marketed specifically for split end repair, and if they've seen any real results, or if it's all just marketing hype?

Just as a reply to the person who asked about the Treseme repair line, I have tried the serum and although it said 80% better ends with,w hat, three tries? I've almost used the entire bottle and I have not notices a significant difference. My amount of split ends were not reduced. It might be that you ahve to use all the products in the line together, but I haven't noticed enough of a difference to spend money on the entire line.

Seriously, the only way to get rid of split ends is to cut them off.  Once your hair follicle is split, it will continue to split higher up the hair shaft, ultimately breaking off and leaving you with shorter hair.  If you get the ends trimmed, your hair will definitely be healthier to allow it to grow longer.  I am not talking about cutting inches off at a time, but 1/2" will go a long way to making your hair look healthier and well kept.

I'm sorry to tell you, but once your ends have split, there's no other way to get rid of them but to trim them. Then you should use the intense hair mask to prevent future split ends. I use Dove Nourishing Oil Care Deep Conditioner, I flat iron my hair every day and I have almost no split ends.